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A French-American wedding: what changes at the bar

When an American family and a French family come together for a wedding in France, customs are not quite the same. A few pointers so everyone feels at home, at the bar and beyond.

Cocktail hour and vin d’honneur

In the US, the cocktail hour is often short, between the ceremony and dinner. In France, the vin d’honneur usually lasts longer: it is a real part of the day, often outdoors.

The open bar, an American habit

Many American guests are used to an open bar. It exists in France too: our bartenders then serve guests freely for the length of time you choose. A bespoke menu with a set number of recipes is another option.

A day that ends late

Dinner often starts later than in the US, and the party runs late into the night. The evening bar is sized to last until the end.

A menu for both families

Classics everyone recognises, a French touch, a signature cocktail that blends your two countries: the menu can bring both sides of the reception together.

An English-speaking team

We serve in French and in English, and work with you in English by email and video call.

Read more: our guides for weddings in France.

Tell us about your wedding.

The simplest way is to tell us about your wedding. We reply by email, with a first estimate and no obligation.

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